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hailee bella's avatar

so painfully relevant, my heart aches in the resonating words you preach in this beautiful piece.

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ivy morgan's avatar

❤️❤️

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ru ♡'s avatar

ughh i resonate sm, so beautifully said 🤍

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amber.'s avatar

This is so beautifully written and so important. Thank you for sharing this! 🤍

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Milena ❀'s avatar

Thank you, thank you, thank you for writing this! You’ve articulated many of my thoughts. I was just thinking of that Margret Atwood quote and then it was there in the next line! There needs to be a bigger conversation about how “self care” and all efforts to be beautiful can never be solely “for ourselves,” as well as the impact of complimenting women and girls on their appearance. I grew up with a mother who avoided doing so and, while I have a myriad of appearance-related neuroses now, the deemphasis on my appearance in my childhood spared me for so many years from associating my value with my looks. This was a great read and I loved the artwork you chose!

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ivy morgan's avatar

thank you thank you! i hope to write more about “self care” specifically, and the consumerism that is feeding off of the patriarchy. thank you for sharing your thoughts, means so much xx

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Milena ❀'s avatar

I’d love to read that!!

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Juliana's avatar

Beautiful writing

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ivy morgan's avatar

<333

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femalearchives's avatar

So beautifully written and a brilliant piece. Well done!

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ivy morgan's avatar

thank you thank you ❤️

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The Demure Hedonist's avatar

What a wonderful read! I also love the Margaret Atwood quote I hadn’t heard it before.

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ivy morgan's avatar

thank you so much :) and the atwood quote is one of my favourites (if not my all-time favourite). it keeps me up at night with my feminist agenda lol!

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